Authentic communication

"The egotist is totally him or herself, all the time: all ‘authenticity’ and no empathy. Egotists have no interest in or concern for others. They say what they want to say and do what they want to do, regardless of what others want or whether they might get hurt as a result.
Surely this is extreme authenticity? No, it isn’t.
In reality, the egotist is just as inauthentic as all those types I have already listed. The egotist creates a false world with only one person in it. How does he do this? By discounting the needs, opinions and views of others and focusing entirely on his own. Since such a world is impossible — no one, however self-centered, can survive without the help of other people — egotists have to manage their communication and conceal their intentions."
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